Many people will already be familiar with the standard offer of a funeral when a loved one dies, perhaps with a formal memorial service at a later date. Over time, having discussed this with many families that I’ve worked for, I’ve come to realise that there is often a need for a more personal, considered and shared experience to play a part of the grieving process when the time is right.

I offer an entirely bespoke memorial ceremony, conducted perhaps in a more familiar setting, such as at home or a much loved location, and led in a way that is warm, inclusive and whilst still entirely respectful, that bit more accessible than many of the alternatives that may be available.

Often in these situations, there has been little opportunity for any proper reflection, discussion and expression. The unique process I would guide you and your loved ones through would very much encourage all these essential elements, drawing on happier times, memories shared and both individual as well as collective experience for inspiration.

Our aim would be to create a Your Three Days ceremony that helps heal, brings everyone together and is life-affirming, in just the right way.